Whether it's part of foreplay or the main event, fingering can be super pleasurable for people with vulvas-as long as it's done well. Bad digital stimulation isn't just a huge turn-off; it can also be incredibly painful! That's why we spoke with some sex-positive women about how men can up their fingering game. Now, there's one big caveat here, which is that every woman and every vulva is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all method when it comes to fingering. Ultimately, the best fingering technique is asking your partner what feels good to them!
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Instead, I'm just going to tell you that the short story is that the vaginalike your throat, isn't a hole that sits ever open. How wide it is is about what is inside of it, and if three fingers inside you feels good during masturbationthat is just about you being aroused and relaxed you might also notice that your vaginal muscles clench around less just as strongly.
When you take those fingers out, and aren't aroused anymore, your vagina is unchanged. In other words, it goes back in a little bit to the same state it was in before those fingers were in there.
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Vaginas are muscles, not slack skin. While certainly, they can lose tone over time usually just with aging and hormonal changes: not for a person your ageusing that muscle - like using any muscle - increases tone, it doesn't cause a loss of tone.
That would make no sense. For the longer story on the lowdown on vaginas and "looseness" and "tightness," ck out these answers and articles:.
It's also always worth a reminder that the vagina isn't an object: it's an integral part of YOUR body, not something for someone else. So, even if there were any stock in all this loose-vagina mumbo-jumbo, or if there is a time later in your life when muscle tone is an issue like after pregnancyit's still nothing to get freaked out about. Your organs just need to be healthy, and to feel good to you: you feeling good to someone else is about WAY more than whatever state your body is in, and if to anyone it's not, they're the problem, not your body, okay?
As far as your hymen goes, the hymen erodes slowly over time - just due to pubertyvaginal discharges and menstruationphysical activity - and that process can be sped up by masturbation and vaginal sex. Since you insert three fingers into your vagina comfortably, it's a given that your hymen is likely only partial at this point, which is totally fine.
During arousal, more blood flows to the vagina. This causes the vagina to elongate and the cervix, or tip of the uterus, to lift up slightly, allowing more of a penis, finger, or sex toy to fit in Media in category "Vaginal fingering" The following 15 files are in this category, out of 15 total. Anastasia Mayo Eros Galicia (1).jpg , ? 2,; MB Okay so, I had been staying at my Grandpa's house because my cousin was down and I hadnt seen him in a while. I stayed three nights, and we had to share a bed because there wasnt enough which I didnt mind because we were pretty much like best friends anyway. He's 14 and I'm On the first two nights, we snuggled and he always rubbed my legs, back and tummy etc but I didnt think anything of
Too, the hymen is flexible, rather than brittle, so it can stretch when you insert your fingers. There's no actual purpose for a hymen, and it's supposed to wear away. It also doesn't matter how it wears away.
The idea that people with vaginas who have not had vaginal intercourse should all have totally intact hymens is a very outdated and incorrect idea. Plenty of people with vaginas will have hymens that are mostly worn away without having had any intercourse at all.
I was fingered for the first time the other day and I am just curious what other people's first time was like. Here is my story. It was my little cousin 9th birthday party and I really wanted my boyfriend of 6 months to go and meet some of my family for the first time. I am 1 and he is 14 and it was both our first time. We are both virgins and I've never fingered myself but I have used You are still very young and your body is developing fast now because you are entering your puberty. I presume that is why you got interested in this in first place. Every woman is born with hymen. Hymen is a part of skin that is located at the entrance of your vagina and this is probably that is stopping you to put your finger inside your vagina Start with one finger, until you see that she's getting into it, then slowly insert another finger." Sofiya: "I think a lot of men start waaaay too rough, like they're trying to unclog my vagina
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Since you insert three fingers into your vagina comfortably, it's a given that your hymen is likely only partial at this point, which is totally fine. Too, the hymen is flexible, rather than brittle, so it can stretch when you insert your fingers. There's no actual purpose for a hymen, and it's supposed to wear away
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